Reviews in Religion and Theology, 28:1, 55-57.

 

Letters to a Young Muslim, Omar Saif Ghobash, Picador, 2016 (ISBN 078-1-250-11984-1) xxi + 244 pp., $22.

 

It is rare that one finds a book that is both courageous and beautiful in the area of religion. Omar Ghobash’s Letters to a Young Muslim is such a book. Written as a series of letters to Saif, his teenage son, Ghobash mixes delicately yet powerfully autobiographical recollections, descriptions of the beauty of Islamic religious life, a powerful critique of neo-fundamentalist Islam, and a call for another way of living Islam in the modern world. The book is so intimately written that one feels as if one has gotten to know both father and son personally.

 

Ghobash’s critique of Islamic society includes the following: Muslims are taught that Islam is destined to dominate the world: “You are told that it is inherent within our religion to be the dominant player. All the rules that we know are written for an Islamic society that dominates others … We will give you peace if you are peaceful, otherwise beware. Islam was dominant from the time [of] the Prophet Mohammed …” (p. 9); 70% of Muslims, about 840 million people, are illiterate (p. 34); bullying is the style of controlling situations by those in power, including clergy (pp. 70-73); the “masters of extremist Islam” are “developing an advance theology of death, destruction, and decay” (87); there are issues to confront in the modern world such as: specific beliefs and truths that one is  taught, democracy as a mode of group decision making, freedom, sexual identity including homosexuality and the mixing of the sexes; violence is not the way (pp. 90-103, pp. 132-38); and modern Muslims easily slide into “semiconscious self-censorship”:

 

I used to wonder why we only read good news about ourselves. The real world around me abounded in errors, ethical quandaries, political catastrophes, blatant lies, and imagined glories … I understood that there were no written rules that told me and others what we could or could not talk about. It was something in the way we had habituated ourselves … a form of semiconscious self-censorship … The silence that develops when you are silent within yourself for too long is a haunting emptiness. This is the dumb silence that signifies an emptying out of yourself. (pp. 221-24)

 

But it is Ghobash’s call to a more courageous Islam that is at the core of the book:

 

Islam’s truth expresses itself differently in different cultures, in different geographies, and in different times. Rather than thinking that there is only one version of Islam that all Muslims should conform to, as some suggest, we should look around ourselves and discover the multiple ways in which people take up Islam. Rather than thinking in black and white, we should think with all the colors of the rainbow and see Islam as a morally and ethically rich faith … Islam is not the property of the Arab world. Islam belongs to all of us. (p. 76)

 

[W]e are told daily that Islam is a religion of peace but that it is also a religion that is under attack from non-Muslims, or the west, or imperialism, or Zionism, or capitalism … Perhaps instead of calling for war by all, in all places, and at all times, we should call for trust, care, and generosity by all, in all places and at all times … Peace is a state of being. Peace is a permanent stance toward the world … I want you to grab hold of the responsibility of peace … as a reminder of a great responsibility that you have toward Allah, toward others, and toward yourself. (pp. 80-83)

 

The resort of violence is a particularly unintelligent and unimaginative way to deal with matters … If you want to take responsibility, use what you have to support artists, writers, thinkers, filmmakers … When you bear responsibility, you raise your head, your mind is focused, and you sense a certain kind of dignity – the dignity that you should feel as a complete human being … If we do not like what the extremists are doing, then we need to call them out on it. It is too easy to say that they have nothing to do with us. They speak in Allah’s name. And they do so convincingly … It is not enough to chant in public that Islam is not violent or radical or angry – that Islam is a religion of peace. We need to take responsibility for the Islam of peace. (pp. 90-103)

 

The question of violence is going to be central in the lives of your generation of Muslims as well. Why? The reason is the rising voices of aggressive clerics who portray Islam as a religion of power through violence … Why, if you can write hundreds of pages of text on the theology of death, can you not give equal attention to what we Muslims can do with life? Why the intense focus on departing this world in a storm of blood and anger?  (pp. 132-34)

 

The warrior is one of the sadder figures in our modern Muslim society. Sad because he thinks that he is acting in a way that will bring him closer to Allah, and to the rewards of the afterlife when, in fact, it is really opting out of the challenges of the life that Allah gave him … Perhaps the modern Muslim warrior is one who embraces life in its complexity and fights for social and economic justice … Islam was never a one-dimensional army of fanatic recruits for war … (pp. 145-47)

 

Ghobash’s chapters on “What is True Islam” (pp. 75-78), “Role Models” (140-50), “Free Speech and the Silence Within Ourselves” (pp. 219-28), and “The Muslim Individual” (pp. 237-44) are excellent and, considering the challenge all this poses to neo-fundamentalist Islam, these are also very courageous chapters, especially the last chapter, “The Muslim Individual.” At the same time, Ghobash’s section on the meaning of the recitation of the Qur’an (pp. 16-18) and his path into fundamentalism (pp. 119-29), together with the unflagging love that he shows for his son, Saif, are intimate portraits of his own life as a serious and spiritual Muslim.

 

As I write these lines, parts of the Islamic world are opening up to an earnest relationship with the Jewish “other” while, at the same time, parts of the Islamic world are turning to the beheading of the “other.” The battle for how one truly imitates the Prophet and honors the Qur’an and the holy traditions has been engaged.

 

David R. Blumenthal

Emory University